Stop Comparing Wednesday, 29 June 05
Jacelyn • Filed under: Ranting • 3:34 am
It certainly makes me sick and disgusted by people who judge others by a photo or the things you write.
“Oh my god, you look so ugly!”
“Don’t be so arrogant/hao lian!
Have you seen me in person yet? Do you really know me in real life? So do you mean that you are much prettier than me? I am just speaking up and telling the truth, am I wrong? This is my blog, my site, I paid for it, you mean I can’t write the things I want?
If your answer is no for all the questions above, then all I can say is to keep your mouth shut and stop being such an idiotic moron. All the photos I’ve taken are not by professional photographers, neither did I go for any makeover programme. I am not that vain yet. Ask yourself man, if someone were to tell you that you look like shit and ugly in that photo, how would you feel?
I’ve visited so many sites, seen a lot of comments and get frustrated just by reading them. Some people just have nothing better to do, and loves picking on people for absolutely nothing. A simple photo brings chaos. It makes the internet looks cheap and a scary place to be in. Alright, perhaps you may think that, "Why not? I am just writing an anonymous comment, you can't locate me at all. I can write whatever things I want." I am pretty sure you will know that if you were to tell that to someone face to face, that person will knock you out till you black out.
Honestly speaking, I’ve never said anything rude or insulting to anyone before. Unless that person is rude to me in the first place. That is always the problem. If you are nice to me, I will be nicer to you. If you are rude to me, I won’t be any better. Well, I am a human. I have a heart, I certainly understand the feeling of being insulted for no particular reasons or perhaps due to something I wrote in my blog. It hurts a lot. It brings down your pride. Seriously, if I don’t like someone, I will simply leave their site forever and never go back to their site. So why can’t you do the same?
People have always told me that I am childish, bitchy, immature. I can’t change these. Do I have to change for your sake? I live for myself man, not for you. I admit that at times, I am immature. I am often told that I am a kid at heart, I can’t grow up. I love hugs, soft toys and girly stuff. I cry a lot too, I need people to dote on me and pamper me. Nothing wrong with that isn’t it? I live in my own world and yes I admit that at times, I am unreasonable and always think that I am right. But I have my own reasons to be like that. I won’t set a conclusion based on assumptions.
So stop assuming you know this and that and use them to attack me. I won’t be brought down.
Note: People out there, please do not try to make up stories and direct your own drama. One word for you: SICK
And please do not try to compare me with other designers and start a war.
“Your site looks like {whoever}.”
“Why you copy {whoever}.”
I have my own design skills, my own thoughts, my own creativity, my own character. Same goes to everyone and every designer out there. If your motive is to compare this and compare that, and agitate people to whom it may concern, then please stop all these. I don’t wish to see any unhappy endings. I am getting super confuse right now. Like who’s in the right, who’s in the wrong. Who is this person, who is that person. Now don’t make me confuse any further, I don’t want any brain freeze.
Please stop. Getting tired with all these nonsense.
TYVM
